Okay i need more help with this guy?

Since you obviously don't like him as much as he likes you, it would be best to have a clean break and stop stringing him along. Don't get him to break up with you, that's cowardly. Just tell him you aren't ready to be in a relationship right now and that though you wish you felt the same way about him, because he's a great guy, you don't think you will ever be able to.